Let me walk you through a typical evening at my house.
Kid: What’s for dinner, Mommy?
Me: Hmmm … How about lima beans and bologna? I know it’s your favorite!
Kid: Yay! There’s nothing that can’t be improved by adding lima beans!
Me: You’ve been really good today. I think I’ll put some pineapple on top as an extra special treat!
Kid: Yay! You totally rock, Mommy!
Okay, well maybe it doesn’t happen exactly that way … but it might!